13 deep questions to ask yourself when you feel fear
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What am I afraid of?
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How can I cope with this worstcase scenario in a healthy way?
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Why am I so focused on not feeling fear?
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What is the worst thing that can happen if ________ (insert fear)?
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Is there anything I can do to feel safe right now?
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What do I need to feel safe?
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How is this feeling creative or unproductive in my life?
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Why am I afraid?
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Do I want to live without fear?
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What does it mean for me to live without fear?
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What is the worst thing that would happen if I didn’t feel fear?
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What would happen if I didn’t feel fear?
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How is this feeling in alignment with my values and what are my values?
13 tips on how to deal with fear
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Talk to someone you trust or a therapist.
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Participate in activities that make you feel like yourself again.
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One may also find comfort in their religious beliefs or spirituality.
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Name your fear.
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Meditate or pray.
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Have friends who will give you the support and encouragement you need.
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Get some exercise, which will release endorphins and help you relax.
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Find healthy ways to deal with the fear: talk about it, exercise, change your thinking patterns, confront it, etc.
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Eliminate your fear by taking direct action.
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Do not let your fear dictate your life.
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Discover what your fears are and what might be causing them, and then confront them head on by facing them directly with one thing at a time (if possible).
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Choose to live a fulfilling and happy life despite your fears.
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Build up your tolerance to what scares you with gradual exposure to it, until you can handle it more easily.
How fear affects you
A person feels fear when they expect to experience a negative event or believe they are in a situation where they will be harmed. Fear is a normal human emotion that varies in degree from mild apprehension to intense terror. One type of fear is called phobia, which is an irrational and intense fear of something, especially a specific thing.