10 deep questions to ask yourself when you feel loneliness
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Where do I feel alone?
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What is the worst thing that could happen if I am alone?
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What events in my day, week, month are making me feel lonely?
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Is there anything I can change to make myself less lonely?
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Is it ok for me to be alone sometimes today?
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Do I regret anything from my past?
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Do I feel that I have lost a sense of meaning in my life?
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Do I feel that I am not important to anyone else?
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What is the general plan for the day if I feel lonely in the morning?
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What is my usual routine when I feel lonely in the evening?
7 tips on how to deal with loneliness
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Volunteer with animals at the humane society. Petting the animals will release some of that pentup energy and help reduce loneliness.
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Volunteer at a local soup kitchen or nursing home. You will meet some nice people and it will make you feel good about yourself.
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Talk to a therapist.
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Join an organization or club where you can meet people. Socializing is a great way to connect with other people and can help alleviate loneliness.
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Get an animal. Animals are wonderful companions, and might be just the thing to help you feel less lonely. If you don't have enough space for a pet, then consider volunteering at an animal shelter or fostering animals in need of homes. You could also go out with friends who have pets.
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Find ways to be social. For example, look for meetup groups in your city where you can find likeminded people.
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Ask your friends to tell you about their depression, anxiety, loneliness. Help them when they need it and when they want to help you.
How loneliness affects you
Loneliness is a feeling that is felt when a person doesn't feel loved or needed. It doesn't happen all the time, but when it does it is a powerful sensation that makes them feel unwanted and unloved. I feel loneliness when I am on my own and have nothing to do.